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11:07 am Mon 19-Jul-10
| mutley
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Mine is £12 pcm ,may have to get some instant water in powder form in case there is a drout.
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3:39 pm Mon 19-Jul-10
| Rae Mond
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I have to admit, I have no idea what my monthly water rates are like. I'm rubbish at keeping on top of utility bills. Generally if a red one comes through the door just after I've been paid, then I'll do something about it, otherwise, well, they can't have what I don't got, so they can go whistle.
I was preparing to pour out a massive exposition on the inequalities of our society and how the values of the "mainstream" are completly out of whack, with the pursuit of financial gain and status symbols being considered not even merely legitimate but praiseworthy, and (in an only barely related thread of rant) how so many seem content to have abdicated responsibility for themselves or for providing for their families to instead take handouts from the state, which in fact come from the confiscated income of those who do feel compelled to work for their living, and how in fact, there is no effective way to "opt out" of this sytem short of becoming a full on hermit.
But just thinking about it all made me so tired and apathetic that I can't.
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3:57 pm Mon 19-Jul-10
| brightspark
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Well you did pretty well, all things considered
What you have done is expressed what a lot of hardworking people feel, too. 
Another subject, my rant:
The wearing of the burqa – France has decided against it - and I can fully understand that to communicate with someone, it is important to see their face – all part of communication.
A young relative of mine, attending secondary school for the first time was confronted by a tutor in full burqa. The young student was frightened by the appearance. I'm not really sure that it is reasonable to expect a young person to learn in that situation.
When I had to get a new passport recently, the form suggested that, although I wear glasses all the time, it was not necessary to wear them for the photo. Or even smile! The picture doesn't look like me!!
What happens then, with a burqa? Do their passports have only the eyes showing?
Am I being racist – I don't intend to be, and I hope I'm not, but I do think we should be able to discuss our worries/fears.

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4:16 pm Mon 19-Jul-10
| SandyC
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Having lived in Saudi for 17 of the 30 years in the Gulf, I fully support their view that if you don't like our rules and do not want to conform then you can get out or be deported.It is a harsh regime but anybody going there knows the situation and there is no way of getting around it.
My feeling is that Europe should also embrace that policy, they have made a rod for their own backs by being too lenient. If women want to wear burqas then go back to a country that accepts them as normal.
Although I am not in least religious I do think that the religion of the country should be upheld and not pander to others dictating.In Saudi all other religions are banned and so "the devout" do their own thing in private,or secret, so they do not miss out but also do not upset the apple cart.
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4:40 pm Mon 19-Jul-10
| Rae Mond
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Another friend in another forum was discussing the Burqa issue. it''s very complicated.
For passports I believe the face has to be unobstructed, and when going through passport control burqa wearers have to go into a private room with a female officer type person and remove the face covering for identity verification purposes.
I too agree that covering your face to such an extent is a barrier to social interaction, and will often be perceived as at least anti-social and potentially as a deliberately intimidating thing to do.
I also believe that people should accept that though they may have the right to dress or act a certain way if they so choose, other people must also have the right to react to other people's actions/chosen modes of dress, and that the cold facts of reality are that certain modes of dress or actions carry certain inferences – a balaclava and camouflage/combat style clothing, for instance, will make many people think you have violent intentions, dying yourself orange and advertising soft core porn about your person will make many people think you are an idiot, and dressing in all black will make many think you are a satanist.
I think this is another aspect of people wanting to abdicate personal responsibility. if you live in a society, and few of us have the means either physically or spiritually to do otherwise, you have to co-exist with others, and if you're to do that peacefully you have to try and balance your "rights" with those of the people around you, and accept that the things you do will have consequences (this bit is just physics really, all actions having equal and opposite reactions).
I'm also not aware of any convention or declaration of rights (and I've probably studied this more than most) including "the right not to be offended" or "the right to be protected from sights that may in some way upset you or offend your sensibilities".
There are all manner of things that upset, offend, aggravate and incense me in the world. I don't, however, think that the vast majority of them should be "banned" (a few notable exceptions – cruelty to animals/children, that sort of thing), or in many cases even restricted by legislation beyond the bare minimum (which would be essentially a prohibition on harming anyone who hasn't consented to whatever you're doing to/with them).
Specifically regarding the burqa ban – I think it's wrong for the government to prohibit any form of dress, be it an expression of religious belief or a desire to proclaim affiliation to a football team, or anything else for that matter. It's a relatively small step from banning the burqa to banning facial piercings or unnaturally coloured hair (walking around in big boots, with studded accessories, bedecked with heavy chains and with metal through your face could be considered by many to be quite intimidating. The fact that goths are probably more likely to the victims of violent crime than the perpetrators being neither here nor there).
I would, however, support the "right" of private businesses to ban things that cover the face in their premises, as many banks and petrol stations for example already do with motor cycle helmets. After all, these are not places that anyone is really forced to patronise, and there are legitimate security concerns at play.
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5:22 pm Mon 19-Jul-10
| SandyC
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There is a distinct difference between personal dress as in goths,punks,mods,rockers, hippies etc and religious indoctrination.
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5:53 pm Mon 19-Jul-10
| Rae Mond
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6:24 pm Mon 19-Jul-10
| SandyC
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The first category has a personal choice and generally speaking they are people of strong opinions and able to stand up for and support their ideals. ( Goths were not around when was"young " I would definitely have been one)
Religious indoctrination is a fear induced way of life. I have spoken with many, many, highly educated women in Saudi who know what is happening but are powerless to do anything about it for fear of their lives.
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6:35 pm Mon 19-Jul-10
| brightspark
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Rae Mond said:
For passports I believe the face has to be unobstructed, and when going through passport control burqa wearers have to go into a private room with a female officer type person and remove the face covering for identity verification purposes.
I would, however, support the "right" of private businesses to ban things that cover the face in their premises, as many banks and petrol stations for example already do with motor cycle helmets. After all, these are not places that anyone is really forced to patronise, and there are legitimate security concerns at play.
Hi Rae Mond – you do write so well, and logically, too.
The passport issue – if there is a control of any sort, then the 'London bomber' would not have escaped by wearing the burqa (not sure if he was one of them or just 'connected' to the plot). As the burqa is normally worn by women, he couldn't have been challenged by border control.
I also understood that banks, etc, had the right to request motorcyclists to remove their helmet – so would the same businesses have the right to ask for the burqa to be removed? Not sure!
By the same token, would it be racist for a school to reject an application from an individual who insisted on the wearing of the burqa? Or just being reasonable to realise that children may find it difficult to communicate with someone wearing it?
Difficult questions – I do know that an MP (Philip Hollobone) has put forward a bill to ban them, and he has said that, if a woman goes into his surgery to speak to him, and refuses to remove it, then he would refuse to speak to her on the grounds that she could see him, but he couldn't see her.

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6:50 pm Mon 19-Jul-10
| SandyC
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When we lived in Saudi We had 2 close friends murdered in the Khobar killings because the terrorists entered the compound wearing Abayas and burqas. Women cannot be approached or touched by a man there. The next year another close friend was shot dead and dragged through the streets. Thats when I went to live in Bahrain and Jon commuted to Saudi daily.
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9:20 pm Mon 19-Jul-10
| Rae Mond
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Post edited 9:27 pm – Mon 19-Jul-10 by Rae Mond
I'm sorry, Sandy, I jumped to a wrong conclusion when I saw the words "religious indoctrination", which is something I usually go to lengths to avoid doing, and often rebuke others sternly for! Mea Culpa.
I thought you were implying that all religion was indoctrination, and not something that a rational individual might independently come to believe in. As (I flatter myself, I know) a rational person of faith it really bothers me if someone tries to generalise that it's purely a cynical method of social control (usually these people are evangelical atheists, the subject of an earlier rant).
You're right, the subjugation of women via the violent enforcement* of religious dogma is wrong, the stoning of adulteresses (but not the necessary other party to the "crime"), treating women an girls a possessions of male relatives, and particularly abhorrent practices like immolation and female genital mutilation are utterly inexcusable, and even worse (though it pretty hard to imagine female genital mutilation could be anything other than the ultimate superlative of bad) if the victims are made to believe that they deserve what is being done to them just because they were born with ovaries. Indeed, the stoning of homosexuals is just as bad.
As a side note, I find it quite remarkable that people who profess to do these things in the name of their deity are so oblivious to incongruity of their actions with the teachings of the major prophets of their "faith". All the major religions have at their core a message of love and peace.
But back to the subject, I take the point about using things like the burqa being used as tools of oppresive regimes, but (particularly in the UK and other liberal western democratic type states) this isn't always the cases, and there are increasingly reports of converts and those raised in a more liberal tradition, choosing to wear it. I don't want to go anywhere near the debate about whether or not it's actually a requirement of their faith. I don't know even nearly enough of the koran to make a useful contribution in that sphere.
But I think that those who have chosen to express their faith in this way shouldn't be legally prevented from doing so because it might make other people uncomfortable. Seeing 12 year olds in miniskirts and playboy everything makes me uncomfortable, and seeing groups of chavvy boys hanging around car parks trying to seduce each other with their hideous cars makes me uncomfortable, but I don't think these things should be illegal.
How to the protect the rights of those who don't want to wear a burqa and who's family might pressure them to do so? not a clue. It's part of a bigger picture that includes tackling other sorts of domestic abuse (including the under-reported problems of men who are abused by female partners) as well.
*Edit- or even the non-violent but insidious and psychologically abusive sort of enforcement
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5:12 am Sun 25-Jul-10
| Michelle from Oregon
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I've been gone on a project this week and am working on catching up, so my compliments on the debate to Sandy and Rae Mond, very well said on both of your parts. 
I feel a little silly now, since I was going to rant about my experence at work today. The hardware store I was working at in "beautiful" Stockton, California is in a shopping center with a Grocery store and a liquor store. This afternoon, a suspicious package was left outside the grocery store, and the police were called. In the due course of time, the Grocery store was evacuated, and the bomb squad was called.
It was a pipe bomb.
The bomb squad removed the package into the parking lot, and it was detonated.
I don't think I have written about my personal motto in regards to working in hardware stores, and that is, if there is ever a fire, simply put, RUN. Hardware stores are by their own creation a ticking bomb, between the paint, chemicals, pesticides, and assorted things that could go boom that they choose to stock.
Why weren't we evacuated?
And heaven forbid, what would of happened if the wack-job that created that thing had dropped it in front of the hardware store instead of the grocery store?
Okay time for a couple of choruses of "I wish I was a Oscar Mayer weiner" and a sleeping pill. 
Good night, good sunday morning to all.   
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12:57 pm Sun 25-Jul-10
| KateUK
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6:18 pm Sun 25-Jul-10
| Danny
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I agree, Michelle, that the debate above is excellent
What's all that about? A pipe bomb in Stockton? Why?
Wise advice re hardware stores being ticking bombs. I had never considered that before.
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7:23 pm Sun 25-Jul-10
| Rae Mond
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there's an awesome game called dead rising, which involves running around a shopping mall killing zombies, and by far best place to head is the hardware store.
Also one of the first stops in my run around before barricading myself into the castle when the zombies come for real. You can stock up on all sorts of handy stuff.
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